Where’s your husband? A guide to solo female travel in Bangladesh

Women traveling alone in Bangladesh are a rare sight, but don’t let that deter you! After six weeks of solo travel (occasionally with friends both male and female) in Bangladesh, here’s my guide to female travel in Bangladesh.


Bangladesh is not a place visited by many travelers, let alone women.

A strikingly patriarchal country whose population often harbors medieval views about what women can and cannot do, it can be challenging for women both local and foreign.

I’ll be frank with ya: Bangladesh is not the best place in the world for women in general, let alone [solo] female travelers.

Does that mean you should skip it? Of course not!

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What’s here?

Is Bangladesh safe for female travelers? - Alex surrounded on Nijhum Dwip island - Lost With Purpose travel blog

Surrounded by onlookers on Nijhum Dwip island

What is it like to travel as a woman in Bangladesh?

If you’ve traveled in India, you’ll know what it’s like to be perpetually surrounded by far, far too many men. Men swarm Bangladesh’s streets, and outside of the capital, women are few and far between in public places.

But there’s a big difference between travel in the two countries: India sees far more foreign tourists than Bangladesh does.

Women have traveled India en masse for decades; some solo, some not. They are a part of India’s touristic fabric. Though women traveling India still face problems, it’s not so rare to see girls traveling alone.

Bangladesh, on the other hand, is not used to any foreign tourists, let alone solo women. They’re still figuring out how to cater to the few tourists who do make it… and where foreign women stand in their patriarchal society.

Traveling as a woman in Bangladesh - Posing for a photo with teachers in Hatiya - Lost With Purpose travel blog

Woman in a man’s world much?

The downside of female travel in Bangladesh

Bad news first, right? While traveling solo in Bangladesh, I had to deal with…

  • Endless marriage proposals
  • Other proposals and flirtations
  • Groping
  • Crowds of people accumulating to stand and stare intensely
  • People telling me it was not safe for me to do anything alone
  • People telling me I shouldn’t do things because I was a woman
  • Men coddling me because I am Incapable Woman
  • People insisting I be escorted anywhere and everywhere
  • Etc.

It can be exceptionally frustrating. There were days where I wanted to strangle people and remind them that the Dark Ages have ended. (Or have they?) Though most of my Instagram stories were positive—or amused—there were a good amount of rants and rages mixed into the emotional salad.

Traveling in Bangladesh can also be heartbreaking. You’ll encounter women basically confined to their homes. Only see women outside the house when accompanied by a man handler husband or brother or male family member. Watch boys cycle away from school as girls are forced to walk or take rickshaws because “Bengali women do not cycle.”

It can be tough. Steel yourself.

Guide to female travel in Bangladesh - Group of women in the back room of a home - Lost With Purpose travel blog

I visited a house with some male friends, and only one or two women appeared to bring us snacks. Eventually, I was invited to the “women’s” area of the house… to find an entire kitchen packed with ladies!

The upside of female travel in Bangladesh

I’m not selling Bangladesh very well yet, I know; hear me out.

Though there are a good number of hurdles to jump through as a woman in Bangladesh, there’s one very important thing that makes it all worth it:

As a whole, the people of Bangladesh are amazing.

For every lecherous creep I encountered, there was another man who respected me as a person, told other men off for being crude, or made sure I was safe and sound without trying to dissuade me from what I was doing.

I befriended men more interested in speaking than getting into my salwar, and exchanged ideas with boys more curious about my country than about what was under my orna.

Even better, being a lone woman was like an instant icebreaker with the local ladies. Whereas male travelers might encounter distance unless accompanied by a woman, I was readily surrounded by women and taken in for tea and love whenever I wandered amongst homes in the villages.

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Invited into a house full of women and children for endless snacks and selfies on Nijhum Dwip

Young girls were delighted to come and talk, and older women wanted to mother me (and figure out why I wasn’t married to a nice American boy already). Being a female in Bangladesh opened up a lot of doors into a world many male travelers would never see.

Bangladesh isn’t an ideal destination for everyone, but I found the warm hearts of its people—and its off the beaten track challenges—to be well worth any hassle I encountered while in the country.

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Strolling through the tea-covered landscapes of Sreemangal

Is Bangladesh safe for [solo] female travelers?

In short: yes, I believe so.

Though you may have to deal with medieval ‘tudes and lecherous dudes, I don’t think you’re putting yourself at any serious risk by traveling in Bangladesh as a woman.

Because of ingrained Islamic notions about respecting women—and despite the issues that arise from them—most men will be polite. You don’t have to worry about disappearing or being raped and ravaged and left on a beach to rot, so long as you use common sense.

(It would be pretty damned difficult to get away with that given there are always people around, no matter how remote the area.)

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Being swarmed by a friendly family and neighbors in the outskirts of Dhaka

Is travel in Bangladesh right for me?

Ah, the most important—and nuanced—question.

My thoughts on female travel in Bangladesh are very similar to my recommendations for female travel in Pakistan.

If you’re not an experienced traveler, Bangladesh is not a good place for you to test the waters, especially if you’re a solo female traveler.

Regardless of your gender, the country can be difficult to navigate. The language barrier is large, the country very conservative, and information on traveling in Bangladesh is lacking at best… though I’m trying to change that! You’ll also be hard pressed at times to find other foreign travelers to rely on, should the need arise. Ain’t no party hostels in Bangladesh, ya dig?

Bangladesh is not the next step after your month of backpacking in Bali, and is a far, far cry from your summer Eurotrip. If you’re looking to an introduction to South Asia, I recommend heading to India for a similar experience with much better tourist infrastructure and a thriving traveler community.

However, if you’re a bossy lady ready for a good challenge and a rewarding adventure, Bangladesh is waiting for you!

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Who said anything about black? These colorful girls on Nijhum Dwip certainly didn’t.

What to wear in Bangladesh as a woman?

Now that you’re sold, it’s time to get into the practicalities of female travel in Bangladesh.

Female dress codes for women in Bangladesh are similar to those in India, with the caveat that you’ll want to stick to them more rigorously than female travelers do in India. (No strappy maxi dress photos allowed at Bangladeshi mosques, sorry to disappoint.)

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Typical looks for Bangladesh—Bengali belly included!

Salwar kameez, a pant and shirt combo, is the most comfortable form of dress; you can easily find sets in markets and shops all over Bangladesh. Even better, Bangladeshi women and men alike will really appreciate your efforts to adapt to the local culture if you do don a salwar kameez.

Tip: If beginning your journey in Dhaka, head to New Market for a balls-to-the-walls rainbow shopping extravaganza. You’ll find everything you need there.

When picking your clothes, don’t be afraid to go all out with the colors! Contrary to common notions of stark Muslim-majority countries, women in Bangladesh generally dress colorfully. Even women wearing long black abayas or burqas often sport colorful headscarves.

Traveling as a woman in Bangladesh - Women in black abayas with colorful headscarves shopping in the markets of Old Dhaka - Lost With Purpose travel blog

Business on the bottom, party on top

Salwar kameez or not, when getting dressed each morning, aim to put on:

  • Loose long shirt that covers your bum at the very least. Long tunics will suffice, as will loose long dresses. Basically, the less curves you show, the better. Short sleeves or ¾ length sleeves are mostly okay, though in rural areas you won’t really see women in short sleeves aside from the occasional older woman in sari.
  • Long pants or a skirt that comes to your ankles. Tight, loose, doesn’t matter, so long as they cover your legs. Leggings are somewhat common in cities, but in rural areas you’ll see more women in skirts, abayas, and loose dresses. Leggings might get you some looks, but I wore them and wasn’t lynched.
  • Scarf draped over your chest. Known as orna in Bangla, and dupatta in Hindi, this scarf can make a big difference in the way people perceive you. Women will judge you less if you’re wearing it, and men won’t check out your boobs quite as often when you do. Make sure that it completely covers your breasts—I had both women and men comment and/or fix mine whenever the curves of my chest were visible. Scandalous!

Headscarves aren’t necessary unless you’re entering mosques. However, they can ward off stares or make you less approachable, and most local women wear headscarves while traveling at night.

If you’re feeling a bit uncomfortable—or just want to hide the color of your hair—wrap up for a bit to see if it makes a difference.

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Bright lights and high rises in chic North Dhaka

An exception to the dress code

Northern Dhaka (Gulshan and Banani) is a very affluent part of the capital city, home to Dhaka’s elite and myriad foreign aid workers. There, pretty much anything goes. I wouldn’t stroll about in hot pants and a crop top, but I saw women in all kinds of other clothes there. You can relax on the dress code and leave your orna at home if staying up north.


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Woman and her manscort in Dhaka

Cultural tips and expectations for female travel in Bangladesh

Given how strict Bangladesh’s society is, there are some things you should know before traveling in the country:

You’re going to be treated half as a woman, half as a man. Foreign women transcend the rigid cultural lines between men and women. It’ll be more socially acceptable for you to sit or hang with local men, where a local woman would have to think twice.

According to local culture, a woman’s place is in the home. You’ll see millions of men on the street, but few women.

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Can you spot the woman? Oh wait, she’s behind the lens!

Women generally do not go anywhere alone; they’re always accompanied by a man or group of other women, or take rickshaws from place to place. Solo female travelers will get a lot of stares for this very reason, and many people will want to escort you when you go anywhere.

Most restaurants have obscured seating areas for women and family to use. You can use these to escape stares, or just have a bit of peace and quiet while eating if you so choose.

Traveling as a woman in Bangladesh - Eating dinner in a small women's seating area in a restaurant in Hatiya - Lost With Purpose travel blog

Waiting for dinner in my cubbyhole/women’s seating area

Unaccompanied women sit at the front of the local buses. It’s not an official rule, though most of the time people will make space for you to sit.

Women sit next to other women when possible. Men try to avoid sitting next to women they don’t know.

Women don’t shake men’s hands… unless they offer you theirs first. Some men don’t want to touch women for religious reasons, and it’s not common overall. Don’t worry, you’re not missing anything—I forgot this all the time, and received the spectacularly limp handshakes on a regular basis.

Seeing a women smoke is not a common sight. If you smoke, prepare to blow minds. However, many men offered me cigarettes while in the country.

Women put on headscarves during the azaan, call to prayer, even when at home. You won’t be expected to, though.

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These sassy ladies were dancing when the azaan sounded. They stopped the music—mandatory during the azaan—but then switched to taking selfies since dancing wasn’t an option for the time being!

Women ride sidesaddle on motorbikes (and definitely do not drive them). I say you have to draw the line somewhere—riding sidesaddle is just plain uncomfortable, and if you’ve found a motorbike to drive around (relatively easy), go for it!

Many people value daughters less than sons. Twisted, but true. A tangible example: I had many people offer up their daughters to me to take to the United States. Few offered up their sons. Brace yourself.

If you’re unmarried, prepare to field questions about Bangladeshi boys. The number of times I had people try to convince me that Bangladeshi boys are “all very nice” and would make excellent husbands…

Guide to solo female travel in Bangladesh - Alex on a motorbike with her manescort - Lost With Purpose travel blog

With my escort for the day because Allah forbid I should go anywhere on my own…

Potential challenges for female travelers in Bangladesh 

Aside from men being creepy and people thinking you’re incapable of doing anything, there are two other potential challenges to traveling as a woman in Bangladesh I want to talk about.

Women not allowed at budget hotels

The most important. Though I personally never encountered this issue, I have female friends who did.

Sometimes budget hotel owners won’t let lone women stay in their hotels. They claim “security” is not good enough, or that the girl needs a local guide. More likely than not they simply don’t want the responsibility of a lone woman on their hands, but whatever the case, know that this could be an issue and always have several hotels earmarked.

Guide to solo female travel in Bangladesh - Alex with a group of men in Nijhum Dwip - Lost With Purpose travel blog

With my manhandlers helpers and security guard while visiting more remote parts of Nijhum Dwip

Having security forces up in your business in remote areas

This I did encounter while traveling to Hatiya and Nijhum Dwip, two remote islands in the south. An English woman told me she experienced the same in Rangpur in the north.

In my case, local police were distraught to find a foreign woman traveling alone in the area. They tried to force an escort on me, or at least have me check in with them every time I went anywhere. They also obstructed my attempts to get a bicycle on Hatiya, bah.

If this happens, be firm about not needing an escort—ain’t nobody gonna talk to you if you’re followed by an armed guard all day.

Solo female travel in Bangladesh - Guard with gun walking in Nijhum Dwip National Park - Lost With Purpose travel blog

Think the gun is big enough to protect me?

After giving my officer the slip too many times and sparking some tempers, I ended up compromising. The police checked up on me at least once a day (most of whom were nice, though one was creepy and touchy), policemen sometimes occupied the room next  to mine, and I registered my details at the station. In the end, they were mostly kind and helpful and I got lots of free food out of it.

Have patience, and remember they mean well.

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Chilling with a family in a village outside of Khulna. Any situation where women and children are involved is usually pretty female traveler friendly!

Female safety tips for Bangladesh 

Common sense and a trust in your instincts are the best protection you can have. However, since I just talked you out of having a security escort 24/7 (really, it’s BS), here are some tips to keep you safe and sound:

Dress modestly. It makes a difference, trust me.

Don’t go out far in the dark/at night unless you’re with others. Sad that it’s necessary, but that’s the reality in many places in the world. If alone, I only went out for food after dark, and never strayed too far. Markets and big shopping areas (such as New Market in Dhaka) were an exception—you’ll see loads of women shopping at night!

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Men and women abound in the chaos outside of New Market

Don’t tell people exactly where you’re staying. Unless, of course, you really trust them, or they need to know to pick you up. If asked, just say you forget the name of the hotel, or tell them the general area.

Beware of young men. They’re the horniest, and I found them to be the most problematic. Not all are untrustworthy, though, so use your instincts.

Be cautious with selfies. You’ll be requested to take a million and one selfies. Many are innocent, but some boys will use them as a way to get physically closer to you and possibly touch you. Don’t be afraid to say no—it would be way out of line for a Bangladeshi boy to ask a local girl he didn’t know for a selfie, and the same logic should apply to foreign women.

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Selfies with girls, though? Go for it! Beware, they might want to take more than a few…

Don’t give your “Facebook ID” to people you don’t know well. You’ll end up getting about 10 million messages, video calls, and friend requests from friends of friends. I know this from (too much) experience. Tell people you don’t use Facebook if you don’t want to friend them.

Download Uber to get around Dhaka. If you’re not comfortable taking rickshaws or autos, Uber is available in the capital, and is a good choice for traveling at night or finding your way back when lost.

Stick to places with people. Think markets, busy trains, buses, etc. If there are people around you can count on someone coming to your aid if something happens. If you’re alone… well, that’s another story.

Feel free to say you’re married or have a boyfriend. People will be baffled as to why he’s not with you, but it’s easier for them to believe he’s somewhere else than to think you don’t have one at all. It’ll also keep the horny boys at bay.

What it's like to travel as a woman in Bangladesh - Amongst a crowd of school girls in Manpura, Bangladesh - Lost With Purpose travel blog

Very much at a loss for words when I had to present myself in front of an entire school of girls who didn’t speak English!

Useful Bangla words for female travelers

Knowing a bit of Bangla goes a long way, as English isn’t particularly common. Here are some words I heard over and over and over again while traveling Bangladesh. Some of the more useful ones for girls are:

  • Appa: Sister. Used as a form of address.
  • Bhai: Brother. People will want to know why yours isn’t accompanying you.
  • Bachha: Baby. Bachha nehi means no baby. Prepare for disappoint if you use it!
  • Eka: Alone
  • Jao: Go away. If too many men have gathered to stare at you—or they’re just being annoying—don’t be afraid to shout jao!
  • Ma: Mother
  • Shami: Husband. People will want to know where yours is. If you’re single, whip out the shami nehi! Prepare for people to play matchmaker if you use this one…
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Selfie time with the girls in a village on the outskirts of Dhaka

Resources for female travel in Bangladesh

Though my blog is obviously the bestest resource in the world (jokes), here are some other places you can find help and information about female travel in Bangladesh:

  • Bradt travel guide to Bangladesh: Accepted as the best and most comprehensive general travel guide to Bangladesh, and has a section on female travel. Having a paper guide never hurts!
  • Solo Women Travellers of Bangladesh: A Facebook group for badass Bengali bitches. The focus is mostly on international travel outside of Bangladesh, however if you let people know you’re a foreigner coming to Bangladesh, you’re sure to find some travelin’ ladies willing to show you around.
  • Couchsurfing: Always a good bet when looking to meet people or find help in a new country. There are some female hosts, and remember that not all men are evil and/or creepy 😉
  • TOB Helpline: An offshoot of Travelers of Bangladesh, one of the country’s biggest travel-oriented groups. While the main group is for sharing write ups about your travel experiences, this is where people can ask questions. Mostly in Bangla, but if you post in English, you’ll find help. Beware, you may receive a million and one friend requests and offers for help if you do. Don’t accept friend requests of anyone who didn’t help you.
  • Teacake Travels: One of my favorite solo female travel blogs, Alice is a kickass lady who visited Bangladesh several years ago. Her realtalk write up captures the feeling perfectly, and gives a good perspective on how it is to travel the country as an obvious white foreign woman, something I escaped because I can pass as Bengali.
  • Soul Travel Blog: Ellie is a blogger friend of mine who also recently traveled to Bangladesh on her own. Her write up on female travel in the country presents another perspective from Alice’s and my own, as she encountered some obstacles when trying to travel solo through Bangladesh.
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Chilling on the banks of the Meghna on Manpura island

A final note on solo female travel in Bangladesh

Now that you’re overly stuffed with information—good preparation for traveling Bangladesh, as you can count on being overly stuffed with food more often than not—let me leave you with one final thought:

Bangladesh is going to challenge you and your existence as a woman, and it can be both rewarding and infuriating.

Though you may disagree with some aspects of the culture in the country, remember: you are a visitor in Bangladesh. It is not your place to change their culture. Change comes from within—the most you should aim for is to be an ambassador for women in your own country.

What is Lost With Purpose? - Alex swinging on a tree in Hatiya, Bangladesh - Lost With Purpose travel blog

I admit I’m not the most professional ambassador at times…

Instead of wearing shorts on the street, dress modestly, but explain to people that in your country you can wear what you want and men will still respect you (in theory).

Make an effort to interact with women around you, especially when men are disregarding them in conversations.

Tell others how you or your mother or your sisters work for a living, that not all women are housewives in your country.

Challenge notions gently and with grace; otherwise, you’ll be written off as some crazy AF foreign freak, rather than a woman to respect and learn from.

It’ll be a serious exercise in patience and composure, but I promise you: Bangladesh is worth it.


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27 thoughts on “Where’s your husband? A guide to solo female travel in Bangladesh

    Alam Ashraful says:

    You must have gone through some tough time I guess in bangladesh. As a bangladeshi, I am sorry that you had to experience those. People here don’t used to see a woman traveling alone, because of the security issue. Even I myself being a man, sometimes get scared in dark. But on the positive side, I believe people here are very friendly. Most of them are try to help you, which sometimes feel irritating. Getting all the attention. But I hope you enjoyed your stay here, except for the negative experiences.

    Alex says:

    I definitely enjoyed my time in Bangladesh despite the challenges, never fear! No need to apologize on the behalf of others. I just had to focus on the potential negative aspects more in this post, as female travelers need to know what they may be up against.

    Out of curiosity, may I ask: you say there are security issues, but what issues do you mean specifically?

    Gauranga says:

    You are one gutsy lady !!! Came to know about you and your blog from your guide from Assam India “Pallav”……. gutsy blog like stories of Robinson Crusoe or Blue Lagoon Island….keep travelling !! Something has gone wrong with us Indians settled comfortably in our lives, while we as humans were born to explore.

    Alex says:

    Haha, cheers! A friend of Pallab is a friend of mine 🙂 Never fear, it’s not just Indians who have become quite settled… I think that’s something you’ll see all over the world!

    orange wayfarer says:

    Oh Alex! I followed you all throughout Instagram…the stories.. during your stay in Bangladesh, loved them and you and cannot wait longer to be in this country, which my ancestors refer to as Sonar Dyash (the Golden country). Issues you highlighted are pretty much same with India, or at least the rural part of “west” Bengal, where I am from. I think I could live with that. Also, Shami is a type is kebab, it is written in English as Swami 😛 😛 Those girls with sparkle in eyes and ready to click pictures with you in green fields…I can literally hear them discussing about you once you have left, “ekta memsaheb, eka eka ghurchilo”!

    Alex says:

    Hahaha kebab, husband, same thing sometimes 😛 I agree, issues mentioned will definitely be present if you can get far enough into rural India… though foreigners have penetrated the country pretty deeply as a whole! Always a pleasure to have you following along on Insta and the blog 🙂

    donnae says:

    Alex, great post. What an adventure! I’m guessing you heaved a huge sigh of relief when you finally got on the plane to fly home, am I right? LOL

    I’m planning on including India in my ‘gap’ year which will be challenging enough for me but it was good to read about Bangladesh… you just never know.

    Well done!

    Jenna says:

    Hey Alex! I’ve really enjoyed stalking… erm… following your posts over the past year or so. Although I will probably never quit my day job to follow my dream of traveling, I will continue to live vicariously through you! Like you, I have little interest in traveling through Europe or other traditional/expensive destinations and instead dream of going places like Bangladesh and Iran. You are an inspiration to me and other women who might not typically think that solo travel to “off the beaten track” destinations is possible or feasible. I hope to continue to travel once per year by saving up vacation time (last year India, this year who knows), and I really do consider your posts a valuable resource. Please keep up the inspiration!

    Alex says:

    You stalker, you!

    But actually—ha, cheers! No need to quit your day job, there are other ways of traveling… though it seems you’ve got that sorted already. I’m honored to inspire you. More women need to see that they can travel anywhere a man can, even though it presents its own set of challenges. Hopefully one day this is a discussion we’ll no longer need to have.

    Tim UrbanDuniya says:

    I really enjoyed this. Great to hear your tips, and interesting to see how similar they are to (and where they differ from) your tips for women in Pakistan. I’m glad you had a great time in Bangladesh – I was only there once for a short visit, but it was certainly an experience!

    Alex says:

    I’m not actually sure they differ so much—I think the challenges in either country are similar. Though I have yet to travel solo in Pakistan, so we’ll see how that goes in the coming weeks!

    moushumi rahman says:

    i am lonly woman olz i need this job

    moushumi rahman says:

    i am lonly woman i need this job.

    Ratnakor Dosshu says:

    When i was 22, i travel shylet, Bangladesh . Alone. And the 1st day i 186 people asked me (i counted, sorry!) who is with me? no man is with me? that kind of question!!!!!! u know.

    Now i am 29 Now. But i know as a single or lone person(with no husband or family or brother) no only travelling purpose , only live your life in your own country(i am Bangladeshi) is super-duper tough. dangerously tough!

    i gravel almost every tourist places in Bangladesh, remote offtrack places. i never manage a hotel for a single night. because no men is with me. i don’t have a white skin like you! Budget hotel is impossible to manage, not even luxurious hotel give me that chance!!! If i am foreigner at least i manage some luxury!! Only exception Cox’s bazar sea beach hotels.

    and the most funny things is, because of this security issue, always the Eid festival time(2 Eid) i can’t stay in my Mess(many women borrow a apartment for living). i must leave that. Because of the security issue. This festival time all of my roommates go back to there village to there family. So i am alone in the house! and with no exception the house owner forced me to leave!!!

    Women never live alone. Here in my country i feel too much scared about my existence as a women.

    why i share this to you?

    Catherine says:

    I really appreciated this post. I am heading to Dhaka with my young son and a Bengali friend. While I should not have issues about husband or children like you, it was helpful to read about dress suggestions and what not to do doing prayer time. Your post makes me look forward to the trip.

    Musfirat Hasan says:

    I am a Bengali woman who lives in the Northern part of Dhaka and can I just say, your portrayal or Bangladesh and the things women face was absolute perfection. It’s hard to believe that you being a foreigner coming from a completely different culture and society observed and depicted these so accurately. Loved
    this blog ❤

    Sanjida Islam Borsha says:

    Thanks Alex for being with us …

    Tali says:

    Wow, this was really interesting to read! I didn’t know a thing about Bangladesh before this article. I don’t know if it’s right for me (yet) but I so, so appreciated your perspective and insights. And the beautiful photos!

    Rafi Zahedi says:

    Hi Alex… i was looking for some info about Maitri express Train and found you blog post and i keep reading. Yes There is very few female solo traveler in Bangladesh but day by day its improving. Woman go to place with woman gang and no men are allow there. and they communicate via Facebook group. if you want i can give some of the link and you can find useful about it.
    also there is a lots of active Travel Tuber in Bangladesh who are giving information all the time about local tourism. All are under a Facebook group named “Bangladesh Travel Tuber” and you will find there videos and information to travel well. i dont know how much you enjoyed our country… but if next time you come Bangladesh i want to Tag you with the Best Female Friendly Budget tour group inside our country.
    And again THANKS to represent our country in your Blog
    Love from Bangladesh

    Romzan Ali says:

    also there is a lots of active Travel Tuber in Bangladesh who are giving information all the time about local tourism. All are under a Facebook group named “Bangladesh Travel Tuber”

    Romzan Ali says:

    I am a Bengali woman who lives in the Northern part of Dhaka and can I just say, your portrayal or Bangladesh and the things women face was absolute perfection. It’s hard to believe that you being a foreigner coming from a completely different culture and society observed and depicted these so accurately. Loved

    Khalid says:

    You have compelling information and quite the “balls” for embarking on this journey alone. However, I do find some of your info contrary and sexist, when talking about locals “offering their boys” to you. Despite all the dirty ways you said Bangladeshi men approached, groped, and spoke to you, you chalk it up as “if only they weren’t so short.” Your standards sound backwards and frankly sexist.

    You’re welcome to further clarify on what exactly was sexist so I can be more tactful in the future. However, I don’t see how a joke about my preference for men taller than me makes me sexist, even if it’s attached to a statement about disappointing behavior I encountered in the country.

    Ashilur says:

    I find most of the experience hard to relate. Perhaps, there are too many generalizations? For sure you most certainly are going to see a different Bangladesh if you cross social stratification boundaries. For years, Western media has tended to portray the disadvantaged section of societies as representative of the population as a whole, rendering a sort of persistent image of backwardness and an ignorance of the growing middle class. It appears recent foreign travelers have not transcended that practice. This is as good as going off the beaten path, and your experience is bound to vary with the type of people that happen to fall into your itinerary. There are plenty of girls and women in the major concrete cities who travel alone for reasons as different as classes and dating, in private cars and on rickshaws. Banani and Gulshan are not the only neighbourhoods with bold girls (and boys). There’s Uttara, Dhanmondi and more. The handful of urban women who need an escort are bound by religion and not culture or custom – Islam dictates single women must be accompanied by a direct male blood relative. Boys and men who have not had the privilege of a gentleman’s education are surely going to be as horny as your average 13-year-old in the North American suburbian basement or attic jerking off to porn, because that is the maturity they will have the opportunity to ever attain. Look, we appreciate you showing off our poor yet beautiful countryside, but that’s not all there is to it. Some countries are just not safe in general, regardless of whether you’re a solo boy or girl. You could get hit by a bus while crossing a road where no-one has a clue of what the Zebra crossing is for! (Forgive our British English) Next time, if you choose to boldly go (to a country like Bangladesh), do us a favour and classify your adventures correctly, so everyone can learn and eventually help catapult the image of the society in question to ever new heights. Otherwise, kudos on a trip well documented for one section of Bangladeshi society.


    Great, Alex. Planning to Go to BANGLADESH…Alone!!! Very helpfull your experience!

    Annie says:

    Funny thing is after reading your blog, I had this image you would be this white, blond, blue eyed woman. And I scrolled back up , looking at the pictures and trying to find the image i had in mind. Only to find “oh wait, is that her who looks just like another Bangladeshi woman?” . Anyway, the point of me saying this is the way you described the treatment you were getting is very common for white woman because they are like aliens from a different planet in a sea of brown men (and some women). In general, people with Philippine background don’t have problem traveling in BD because their skin color is closer to brown skin.

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